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**New Boy Band Adventures with Old Friends**

Big Time Rush - Summer Break Tour

July 20, 2013 - Mohegan Sun - Uncasville, CT

It had been seven months since I'd seen all my Backstreet girls. We had brought the New Year in together with the Backstreet Boys in Pennsylvania but a lack of Backstreet events had prevented us from seeing one another since then. The last time I had seen the girls they had made it their personal mission to introduce a new group to me. While Big Time Rush (BTR for those of you who might not know the abbreviation) is intended for a much younger audience, a boy band is a boy band. Soon after I had retired from my trip on the east coast back in January, my Big Time Training began. E-mails with episodes of the show, interviews, and music soon began to inundate my inbox. The last thing I really needed was another boy band with which to fall in love. The last thing my husband wanted was for me to develop another obsession. I could have easily deleted all of those e-mails as they came in, but I was curious.

After the first TV episode of Big Time Rush, I noticed the similarities between it and The Monkees. While The Monkees were a bit before my time, I had fallen in love with their show growing up as I watched reruns on Nick at Nite's Block Party Summer. Monkee Mondays had been my favorite day growing up during the summer. Both shows featured a music group getting into crazy and wacky situations and featured music of the group. Why wouldn't I fall in love with something that reminded me so much of another strong love of mine?

While I was no where near the fan status of my friends, I decided that I really wanted to see one of their shows during their Summer Break Tour. While their show in Chicago was the closest, it just so happened to be the same day as the New Kids on the Block concert I would be attending in Indianapolis. Big Time Rush would be in Detroit the day before that. I just had to find someone with which to attend. My niece had gone to a show of their's the previous tour but my sister said she didn't want to go to another show. I'm going to have to teach that girl a thing or two about what being a fan girl is all about, as I was informed recently that Big Time Rush was "so yesterday" and One Direction has her heart now.  I just have to shake my head at that one.  None of my friends in the area even knew who BTR was, unless they maybe had kids who happened to watch the show. While I am more than willing to attend a Backstreet Boys show solo, BTR was a whole different story. I was either going to have to skip satisfying this new desire or I was going to have to travel to the east coast to party it up with my girls.

Scheming.....er, planning....is one thing that any fan girl should know how to do. Somehow, we were able to work it out that every single one of the girls was going to be able to make a trip, even Kristen, who would be coming all the way from what I like to call "middle of nowhere Canada."  The Mohegan Sun show in Connecticut was going to be the ultimate destination. While many of the girls used the entire week to feed their addiction, I was only going for one show during the weekend. While I would have loved to stay for a few days to just visit, I had to move my work schedule around quite a bit in the month of July for some other trips and didn't want to push my luck at work.

Working the day you are leaving for a trip is always extremely difficult, especially when you are looking so forward to it. This is what I did for this trip and the day could not have gone by any slower while at work even though I had been somewhat busy.  When I finally did get off work, I started my journey out east by heading to the bus that would take me to the airport since my husband always refuses to drive in Chicago.  I would be flying into Newark the Friday night before the show and then we would head out to Connecticut the next morning for our soundcheck and concert.

When I arrived into Newark, most of the girls were actually at a BTR show.  Ash's mom picked me up and we had some interesting conversations about my husband and my's current house buying experiences.  Things actually got a little heated at times as she was trying to give advice that went completely against our financial ideas (there is a reason we are completely debt free).  I guess I fit right in with the family as we began to argue about it.  The girls finally got home pretty late but it was so great to see them again.  After a bit of catching up it was time for bed.  We would be having some new adventures and making new memories together the next morning, as soon as the final person in our party joined us the next morning.

The next morning, once our group was complete, we couldn't help but enjoy the breakfast of champions....ice cream cake!  Anne Marie's birthday had been the week before so we had decided to surprise her with a little celebration by getting her the cake and decorating it with our favorite guys.  She seemed very surprised and it was great to be able to celebrate such a great occasion with friends.  Only people who watch Big Time Rush would know why the saying on the cake is very much hilarious.

It was finally time for the seven of us to start the almost three hour drive to Connecticut!  Everyone I was with had already seen the show at least once and had met the guys.  This was going to be a first for me.  At this point, I hadn't even picked a favorite member of the group...although I did have it narrowed down to two at least.  We spent the road trip making our song request signs for soundcheck and catching up with one another.  While the shows we see with one another are always fantastic, sometimes it is just these moments that I appreciate the most.

When we got to Mohegan Sun, we got into line to check in for our soundcheck.  Ash and Cort ran into some fellow Rushers they knew and we all got into line together.  We got our VIP passes and then waited some more to get into the venue for soundcheck.  While waiting in line we chatted with a really cool mom and dad that were there with their daughter.  The group had met them before and I all I could think about was how I wish my parents would have done something like that for me for BSB when I was young like that.  Now, I'm having to play catch up from all of the opportunities I missed!  We could hear the guys doing some soundcheck from where we were waiting in line and at some point Ash started to do one of her dances to one of the songs.  Cort noticed that there were some fellow fans that happened to be taking photos/video of her while she was doing it.  Ash is always super fun to be around because she does crazy things like that.

When we were finally seated for soundcheck we were in the very front row.  Unlike BSB VIP's we were allowed to take no photos or video.  In a way, I like this so that I could just watch.  However, I really like taking photos and video!  The signs we had made said "Cover Girl" on one side and "Stuck" on the other.  We knew signs had worked when we had gone to see BSB for New Year's so we hoped that they would work for BTR, as well.  Sure enough, it actually got some interaction going.  When the guys had seen our "Cover Girl" side, they had seemed a bit hesitant.  We quickly turned the signs over to "Stuck."  That was when the guys started asking the audience which they would prefer to hear.  The guys ended up singing "Cover Girl" but had a few spots where you could tell that they were having problems remembering the words.  As Backstreet fans, we are totally used to that!  The second song they sang was "Windows Down," which they always sing during their soundchecks.  Big Time Rush does their soundcheck acoustically, which I really liked.  At some point, Kendall started singing "Give Me One More Night (Una Noche)" by 98 degrees and Ash and I were the only ones that were belting out the words with him.  I guess their typical audience might be a little too young to know the boy bands with which we were raised.

While we weren't picked to ask any questions, there were some funny moments during the Q&A portion.  One negative thing about their Q&A is that the audience does not get a microphone to use like BSB's does.  It was extremely hard to hear the questions and I am not really sure how the guys heard anyone up there on stage.  Because video was not allowed and the show happened a month ago (update:  I started writing this post in July but am not finishing it until March of the next year....I'm so behind!), I don't remember the questions exactly but some of the responses are hard to forget!  I believe Carlos was asked something about a dream and he went into the fact that his girlfriend (now wife) had actually had a dream the night before about Kendall.  The embarrassment on Kendall's face was priceless!  He turned so red and started covering up his face with his hands.  Carlos tried to save it and say the dream wasn't like that but  Kendall's reaction said otherwise.  Logan was asked what his favorite song off the new album was and he totally missed on the title. 


It was then time for our VIP photo.  Per a special request, I had borrowed one of the girl's "I <3 CP" shirt (her boyfriend isn't such a big fan of her having it) so that I could be in the photo next to Carlos, while the three others with their own shirts stood next to their favorites.  At the time, I still wasn't sure if Carlos or Logan was my ultimate favorite but there was already a Logan girl in the group so I happily took Carlos.  This was going to be my first time meeting them and I was pretty nervous.  I walked right up to Carlos and gave him a hug (another difference between BSB and BTR's meet and greets).  He immediately put his arm around me as the group got situated (Kendall had disappeared off to who knows where).  After the photo, Carlos playfully grabbed my side and told me it was nice to meet me.  I'm thinking from that moment on, I was a Carlos girl.  I always say I've now met Big Time Rush, but really I have only met Carlos because I don't even think I said "hi" to any of the other guys.  Oops.  Afterwards, Ash insisted, like she does every time, that Kendall hates her....oh that silly girl.

We had some time to kill after our VIP and the show so we decided to grab some pizza, where we were trying to pressure each other into just having "one more piece" so that we wouldn't have any leftovers.


Then it was time for the show!  I believe we were about the 6th row (it's been like eight months since the show and I've done a lot since then) so we had pretty good seats.  BTR had a lot to live up to, after all my boy band concert expectations were high from years of attending BSB shows.  I have to say, they delivered.  The show was excellent and very much full of energy.  I didn't get any videos from the show, which you know is very much unlike me.  However, in true Chrissy fashion, I did get a lot of great photos, which you can see HERE.

We may have stuck around the casino for a bit afterwards to see if we could catch a glimpse of the guys.  After all, we are some of the very few fans that could have actually run into them in the casino.  There were no sightings by us but we later heard of a few fans that ran into some of guys in the casino.  The ride back to Jersey was filled with a lot of comparing and contrasting between Big Time Rush and the Backstreet Boys....well, when we weren't worried about Ash killing us because her eyes kept giving her issues as she was driving.

It was also the ride home that I began to scheme a new adventure.  I had only planned on seeing BTR once.  Then two of the girls mentioned that they might go to Detroit to see BTR in August.  I happened to have tickets to see the Backstreet Boys in Chicago the day before that show and New Kids on the Block in Indianapolis the day after that show.  Could I really see three boy bands in the span of three days in three different cities and states?  I guess you'll just have to stay tuned to see if that, in fact, did happen....

I had to head back home the day after the show and the trip was pretty uneventful.  I was missing my girls already but knew that I would be able to see them again just a few short months later when we got together in Vegas to see the Backstreet Boys for my birthday.

**Title Credit - "Don't Want You Back" - Backstreet Boys - Millennium