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Friday, March 15, 2013

I'm giving you 100, I hope that's enough...

**100 Miles Walked....and other Susan G. Komen 3-Day Updates for Team Betty**

Training Updates:
This week, in my eighth week of training, I have reached the 100 mile mark of miles walked!  Really by the time the week is done, I will have logged 110 miles toward my 3-Day walk training.  With 22 weeks until the race, my training is going about 100 times better than last years.  Other than a minor set back during week 1 with the same tendon that gave me fits during last year's walk and another minor set back during week 6 with a sprained calf, I have been able to stay healthy and mostly injury free!  That's not to say that ibuprofen isn't a good friend of mine right now though!  I haven't had to break out the BioFreeze much yet so that is at least a good sign.  I've also just had two small little blisters that have not hindered my walking at all.  In other words, my training is moving along nicely and I should hit my 200 mile mark the week of April 8th.  

I need to thank the people who have served as training sponsors thus far:  Abbie Vicknair, Tracy and Scott McDonald (multiple weeks), Jeff Hammond, Laura Dimon, and Evan Williams.  By pledging just $1 for each mile I walk in a given training week ($15-$44 max), you can also become a training sponsor.  I have found that this has been helping me tremendously in keeping me motivated with my training AND its helping me in my fundraising.  If you are interested in becoming a training sponsor please feel free to E-Mail Me.

Fundraising Updates:
My fundraising is also moving along nicely, though I am no where near my goal yet.  I am still $2,000 away from hitting my $3,500 goal so I am still a LONG way from reaching this goal.  I have many fundraisers going on right now to aid in this journey:
  • Win A Pair of White Sox v. Cubs Tickets for the Memorial Day (Parking Pass INCLUDED!) - 1 ticket for $5, 5 tickets for $20
    • Game Details
      • Monday, May 27, 2013 - 6:10pm (CST)
      • U.S. Cellular Field
      • Box 530, Row 20
    • Drawing Details
      • Saturday, April 27, 2013 - 7:00pm (CST)
      • Portage Moose Lodge #1900 - Portage, IN - Winner DOES NOT need to be present
    • How to Enter
      • Visit www.the3day.org/goto/C3D13 and click "donate"
      • In the "personal notes" box enter "Baseball Raffle" - This step is REQUIRED to be entered
      • You will receive an e-mail confirming your entry into the raffle with your ticket numbers
  • "Cancer Sucks" Shirt  - Visit bit.ly/cancersuckshirt to get your "Cancer Sucks" shirt from my eBay Giving Works site for $15 and FREE shopping.  Shirts are available in various sizes in black or pink, with white writing, and a light pink ribbon.  There is a limited supply so get yours today before they sell out!

  • **COMING SOON** - Win a Pair of Tickets for "The Package Tour" featuring New Kids on the Block, 98 Degrees, and Boyz II Men - July 19th at AllState Arena - Rosemont, IL - This raffle will be held June 3-9 and details will be released the week before the raffle.  The super exciting thing about this raffle is that it will INCLUDE a 1-on-1 Meet and Greet with Danny Wood from the New Kids on the Block and founder of Remember Betty.
And as always, you can just make a straight donation on my participant page.


Help me reach my goal for the Susan G. Komen Chicago 3-Day

Team Betty Updates:
I am so proud to announce that I will no longer be taking this journey on my own this year!  Through the friend finder on the 3-Day site, I was able to find a first time, team-less walker that lived in my area.  After contacting her and answering all the questions that she had as a new walker, she was convinced to join Team Betty for the Chicago 3-Day!  She is also well on her way to reaching her $2,300 minimum and will probably surpass that to get her $3K Legacy pin by fundraising at least $3,000.  What could be even more awesome is if we could become a Power Team by raising an average of $3,300 per team member!  

After doing a little exploring the other day, I did discover something that I thought was quite impressive.  There are 225+ teams registered for the Chicago 3-Day currently.  Do you want to guess which team falls in the Top 20 list?  That's right....Team Betty!  We were the 19th ranked Chicago 3-Day team as of a couple of days ago, competing against teams with 4-8 team members on them!  I could not be more proud of what we have been able to accomplish with 22 weeks still until the walk.  We want to try our hardest to stay in that Top 20 and maybe even move up to the Top 10!

Thank you for taking the time to read all of my Susan G. Komen 3-Day updates!  I'm hoping things will be looking just as good for my 200 mile update!

**Title Credit - "100" - Howie D. - Back to Me**

Friday, March 8, 2013

And don't take too long...


*2013 Adventures to Come**

Now that I have FINALLY finished writing about all of my 2012 adventures, I need to start looking ahead to 2013.  Granted this list is not exhaustive since the Backstreet Boys tour is not announced at this time.  I imagine that I will be going to several of those shows.  Right now I have some other activities planned for 2013...

March 24 - Aaron Carter - The After Party - Joliet, IL:  This will actually be my first Aaron Carter concert but after meeting him in NYC in December, I knew I had to go.  The friend I am going with is a huge fan and wanted to try to meet him so we ended up getting VIPs to ensure this.  Since this is a general admission show and want to be as close to the stage as possible, we are planning on getting to the venue early and making a day of it...which will actually be my first time ever doing an all day general admission camp out.

April 13-14 - My Big Blue Weekend in Lexington: I knew after my experience at Regionals in Gary that I was going to have to actually make it down to Lexington to see the UK Baseball team play at Cliff Hagan Stadium.  I chose this weekend for certain reasons but was very excited when I realized that this would be the same weekend that the UK Spring Football game would be occurring.  How perfect did that work out???  I already have my tickets and will finally be meeting the person that I like to call my friend soul mate.  She is not only as big of a Kentucky fan as I am (that includes football, basketball, AND baseball) but she is also a Backstreet Boys fan.  I mean, how can it get much better.  I truly hope that another good friend of mine will be able to join me from Nashville as well because we have been talking about going to a UK Baseball game for YEARS!

April 20-23 - BSB Celebrates 20th Anniversary in LA:  Okay so I'm putting this on here even though I highly doubt I will be able to attend this...just in case some miracle happens that I do.  Even if I don't actually get to go to LA, you better believe I will be doing some sort of celebration at home on the actual day of their anniversary (20th).  

August 4 - The Package Tour featuring New Kids on the Block, 98 Degrees, and Boyz II Men - Indianapolis, IN:  I was originally going to see this show here in Chicago but the friend I was going with lives closer to Indy so we decided to go to this show instead.  I went for cheaper seats because I would really rather save my money for the BSB tour.  My 3-Day team will be raffling off a pair of tickets for the first Chicago show, which I may try to enter and win.  I wouldn't mind having to go to a second show if I don't have to pay for it.

August 9-11 - Susan G. Komen 3-Day - Chicago, IL:  Even after the pain and problems of last year, I will be participating in this walk again.  The cause just means too much to me to walk away from it so quickly.  I am bound and determined to walk all of this year and need to raise a minimum of $2,300 in order to even walk.  If you are interested in donating, you can do so on my Participant Page.

August 31-September 4 - NY Baseball Bonanza Part II - Troy, NY:  Okay, so this is another trip that I am not sure if I will for sure go on or not.  I had not planned on making another trip out to NY this year (or at least not before I found out what this year's draft looked like).  However, I received an incredibly awesome message today from former Wildcat, Tim Peterson, about my entry on last year's NY Baseball Bonanza and, I'm not going to lie, it made me fangirl a little.  So now, as long as he stays on the Brooklyn Cyclones and doesn't get moved in the league I might have to go watch him play.  The very odd thing is that his team plays the Tri-City ValleyCats (the team for which my friend Michelle works) at the same exact time that I went there last year to see the Hudson Valley Renegades play (the week of Labor Day).  I think that might be a sign.

October 25-28 - BSB Cruise 2013 - Miami, FL - The Bahamas:  It has been much to long since the 2011 cruise and I am SO ready to get back on a cruise ship with those Boys!  I am sure this will include a pre-cruise event on the 24th.  Also, the girls and I are planning on taking a small mini-vacation after the cruise because those BSB cruises are anything but relaxing!  I mean when you are partying with BSB for four days, how can you actually relax?

I guess that is it for my planned trips, as well as those that I really want to take but might not be able to for some reason or another.  I totally cannot wait to see what BSB concerts I will be able to throw into this list!



**Title Credit - "If I Don't Have You" - Backstreet Boys - Backstreet's Back**

Tuesday, March 5, 2013

Under the bridge on the Brooklyn side...

**New York Baseball Bonanza**
September 1-6, 2012
Brooklyn, NY and Troy, NY

After seeing the UK Baseball team playing their Regionals in Gary, my love for UK Baseball quickly grew to more than it already had been.  I stayed diligently by my computer on draft day to see how the Bat Cats would fair.  I was ecstatic when, at the end of the day, a record nine Wildcats had been drafted!  UK Baseball season was over so I was adamantly able to follow not only these nine players in their minor league seasons over the summer, but also the nine players who either played for the prestigious Cape Cod League or the USA Collegiate National Team.  It was a lot of baseball to keep up with and in the end I had to pick and choose just a few players to follow closely.

When I was trying to get some of the Wildcats to follow me on Twitter after Regionals, the first to do so was Senior Catcher/1st Baseman, Michael Williams.  He had impressed me greatly during Regionals after not only catching the entire 21 inning game against Kent State, but also every single inning of the three games later that weekend.  As I read his tweets, I learned one more thing...he was a man of great faith and he wasn't afraid to share it.  Many times, he would tweet inspirational quotes or even Bible passages that seemed almost too perfect for my current mood or situation.  I looked forward to his daily inspiration and he quickly joined the ranks with Brian Littrell as a Christian that I looked up to.  As a still rather new Christian myself, it is great to see that dedication in others and have those people that can teach you how to become a better Christian.

I started to tweet him occasionally to thank him for his inspiration.  Often times, he would happily tweet me back to thank me.  Michael quickly grew to be my favorite player that had been drafted from the Wildcats.  He not only was a great player, but he was a genuinely good guy.  What was there not to like about that?

I started to follow Michael's minor league team, the Hudson Valley Renegades of the New York-Penn League (affiliate of the Tampa Bay Rays), on a daily basis.  Do you know what made this team even better than having one Bat Cat on it?  How about having two former Kentucky Wildcats?  Wildcat teammate, Luke Maile (a junior Catcher/1st Baseman), had also been drafted to the Rays and the two had been put onto the same team.  It made my dedication of trying to follow all of the drafted Wildcats a little easier.  I was very thankful for the technology that allowed me to listen to and follow their games on a daily basis online.  My husband even began to make fun of me because I would come home from work to listen to the Renegades play.  He told me I was like an eighty year old man listening to baseball on the radio.  I wasn't about to let that stop me from listening and cheering on my team.

After the Kentucky baseball season was over, I did some research to see which players I could possibly go watch during the summer while they were playing with either their minor league teams or the summer league teams.  Unfortunately, not a single player was playing on a team even remotely close to Northwest Indiana.  It looked like I was going to have to just deal with listening to games and following  all of the players through social media.  Then one day, when I was looking at the Renegades schedule, I made a realization.  They would be playing a series against the Tri-City ValleyCats in Troy, NY (where the ValleyCats are located) in early September.  A good friend and sorority sister of mine, Michelle, just so happened to work for the ValleyCats and I hadn't seen her in years.  I could go visit her and watch Michael and Luke play!  The series just happened to start on Labor Day so that would be one less day that I would have to get off from work (in the end this didn't really matter because I left that job the month before and wasn't working at the time of the trip).  I asked my husband if I could go on the trip and he agreed.  I would be taking another trip in 2012 by myself.

As I started to make travel plans for the trip, I realized one thing.  I would more than likely be coming back home on a Thursday and had scheduled to take my General GRE test to get into grad school for that Saturday.  This meant that I was going to have to use a part of this vacation to study for the test.  My friend had informed me that she would have to be at the ball park all day on game days so she would not make a very good hostess.  I told her that would actually be perfect because I could then use that time to study.  I then had to make a decision on how to get to Troy (located just outside of Albany).    It would be a minimum 12 hour drive.  A flight was going to cost me about $100 more than the cost of driving.  Then I looked at a third option...Greyhound.  The trip would be longer than driving (18+ hours) but about the same cost.  Plus, I could use that time to study, which I would not have been able to do while driving.  I made the decision that the Greyhound bus was going to be my way to Albany.  It would be the first time taking this particular mode of transportation and I knew it was going to be an adventure. 

Michelle contacted me a few months before the trip to inform me that she was looking at taking a trip to Brooklyn on the Sunday that I was to get into town.  That made the gears in my head start to turn.  Why?  Another drafted Bat Cat, Tim Peterson, just so happened to be on the Brooklyn Cyclones and they just so happened to be playing on that Sunday!  I contacted her to see what her particular plans were for this day and suggested that we might go to this baseball game.  She happily replied back that that had been the plan!  I was super excited because I was going to be able to see three former Wildcats on my trip now!

Personalized Renegades Gear
If I was going to be cheering on the Renegades, I was going to need Renegades gear.  Once I got the gear, I knew I needed to show my support for those Wildcats for which I was making the trip.  I also made sure that both Michael and Tim knew that I was making the trip for them (unfortunately, Luke does not have either a Facebook or Twitter account).

Saturday, September 1, 2012 - It was finally time for my trip!  I had been looking forward to it all summer as I followed the Renegades online.  If there is one thing my readers should know by now, it is that I just don't sleep, especially when I have something exciting going on the next day.  I remember still being awake and making a trip to Walgreens at about 3am on this morning so I am sure I probably only got 2 or 3 hours of sleep.  At least I was going to be able to sleep overnight on the bus ride (or so I thought).  To start the trip, I had to take the train to get to the Greyhound station in South Bend.  Luckily, the Southshore train runs right by my house and to the South Bend regional airport, where the Greyhound station is also located.  The rain outside kept me from walking the few short blocks to the train station on Saturday morning but while I waited for the train, I did what I was going to have to get used to doing all week...studying for the GRE.  Once I got to the bus station, I did more waiting and studying.  It was already turning out to be an interesting travel choice as I did some people watching, as well.  The bus finally pulled up and I was going to start the long trip to Albany.

Michigan City, IN -> Albany, NY -> Brooklyn, NY - 919 miles

First, this particular bus was one of the older Greyhound buses.  This meant there would be no WiFi access and much smaller seats.  This particular bus was packed solid!  I had found a seat all the way in the back but gave it up when I saw a family with a small child looking for three seats in the same vicinity.  My backpack was full of GRE study material and wouldn't even fit in the luggage rack above our heads or under the seat in front of me.  Therefore, I had to sit with my feet propped on the backpack.  There was barely any room to move, let alone drag out the study materials.  I seriously started to regret my decision of this mode of transportation.  While I couldn't study, I at least got some entertainment of the people sitting around me.  The guy that had been with the small child that I had given my seat up for had started discussing his drug using days with a fellow passenger.  The guy sitting in the seat directly next to me (I was in the window seat) and I started chatting.  I had managed to get out some of my study material and he started to question what I was studying.  When I started talking about taking the GRE, he asked how many years of school I had left.  When I told him I had been out for four years, he seemed surprised.  He informed me that he would have only guessed me to be 21.  I was very flattered, especially since he was the first of about three people I talked with that weekend that thought I was much younger than I actually am.  There were also several people who just could not grasp the concept that I was traveling alone.

It was still raining as we drove.  Remember how I said that this was an older bus?  Imagine every one's surprise as the emergency exit in the roof of the bus started leaking and rain began to stream down into the bus from the leak.  I was so happy that I wasn't sitting there.  Eventually the bus started to empty.  However, I always had someone sitting right next to me.  The next person to sit next to me was a guy, who I later discovered was 21.  He had a thick southern accent and I discovered he was from Kentucky.  Not only was he from Kentucky but he was a University of Kentucky fan!  I found out that he had served overseas (I'm pretty sure it was Army but I don't remember off hand) when he started telling me a very detailed story about the first enemy he had shot when he was over there.  That was interesting to hear.  It was even more interesting when he pulled out a bottle of Kaluha and started drinking it straight from the bottle.  What in the world had I gotten myself into?! 

The end of my 22 hour bus ride with no sleep
Boy was I thankful when we got to Cleveland, where I was scheduled to transfer buses.  I hoped that we would be getting one of the newer buses, which we did!  I was finally able to stretch out with the larger seats on this bus.  There were also not very many people on it.  I started studying away but could only do it for short periods of time before I started to get nauseous from the movement.  It was something that I had not accounted for when I made these plans.  The frequent stops on the route helped so that I could take some study breaks.  During one of the stops, a young college guy behind me asked to borrow my phone so he could find someone to pick him up from the Syracuse station.  This led to a long, late night conversation.  We talked about many different things.  He talked about how he hadn't always made the best decisions in his life but that his faith had helped him to change his ways.  I talked about how my faith had been influenced by Brian Littrell.  He is one of the few guys that didn't mock me when I had told him who Brian was.  As a matter of fact, he was very interested in looking at all of the pictures of me with Brian and the rest of the Backstreet Boys.  We were still talking at about 2am and would get several different people int he bus who were trying to sleep telling us to "shhhhhh."  I was kind of disappointed when he had to get off in Syracuse while I continued my journey.  Needless to say, I wasn't able to get much studying done in the dark but I also couldn't sleep.  I still had hours of my trip to go but I was just too excited for the days ahead of me.  This was when a twitter conversation started with one of my followers that used to live in the Syracuse area since the new bus had WiFi (albeit not very good WiFi). 


Freedom Tower under construction
Sunday, September 2, 2012 - We pulled into the Albany station early on Sunday morning.  I had gotten zero sleep on the bus, was on about 3 hours of sleep from the night before, and had been travelling for 22 hours already.  Michelle picked me up at the station and wanted to hear all about my Greyhound adventures.  She had known I would come away from that bus with some good stories to tell her.  She took me back to her apartment where I showered and changed so that we could make the three hour drive to Brooklyn, more specifically Coney Island.  I was exhausted and it was pure adrenaline from the excitement of the game that was keeping me going.  Michelle and I caught up with one another during the three hour drive and she showed me all of the sites of New York as we went through the city.  From the car I got to see Ground Zero, Freedom Tower, and the Statue of Liberty.  Maybe one day I will return to actually visit the sites on foot.  Before we knew it, we were pulling into the parking lot of the baseball stadium with plenty of time to play at Coney Island. 

The Cyclone
Since we were going to be seeing the Brooklyn Cyclones that evening, it was a must for us to ride the Cyclone.  This historic wooden roller coaster was opened to the public in 1975, declared a New York City landmark in 1988, and put on the National Register of Historic Places in 1991.  We made the decision to ride in the very back cart even though the ride operator warned us that it was an extremely bumpy ride in that particular car.  Wow, was he right!  Both Michelle and I had bruises the next day from the ride on our arms.  It was a fun ride though even though I was asking if it was over about half way through the ride.

We walked along the boardwalk and took in all of the sites of Coney Island.  We couldn't help but laugh at the huge, bent nails sticking up among the boards of the boardwalk along the way.  We visited a small shop to learn some Coney Island history and walked by the The Parachute Jump, a defunct ride since 1968, where riders were once strapped into a two person canvas seat, hanging below a closed parachute.  The riders were hoisted to the top of the ride, where a release mechanism would drop them and the descent was only slowed by the parachute.  Shock absorbers at the bottom would cushion the landing and each parachute required three cable operators which made labor costs high for the ride.

1.  Historic Fun  2.  Parachute Drop

Walking down the boardwalk, I saw some cool architecture (guess my husband's architecture schooling has worn off on me slightly).  The building pictured below was once a Childs Restaurant, one of the first national dining chains in the US, peaking in the 1920s and 1930s.  This particular building was built in 1924 and is considered a New York Landmark, although it is now empty.

1. Childs Restaurant  2.  Me with Coney Island in the Background
Finally before heading to the game, we had to make sure to stop at the original Nathan's Famous for some hot dogs.  Built in 1916, this is the location of the Nathan's Hot Dog Eating Contest since the early 1970s.

Nathan's Famous - Yes, that would be bacon on my hot dog!
My signed Tim Peterson photo
After filling our tummy's, it was time to head to the ball park to see the Brooklyn Cyclones play.  Unfortunately, Tim Peterson is a relief pitcher so I wasn't sure if I was going to actually get to see him play or not.  Even if he didn't, I was still going to have a great time and I hoped that I would get to meet him before or after the game.  After we found out where our seats were, Michelle and I headed to the bullpen area to see if I could catch a glimpse of Tim.  I did but I was not able to get his attention.  As we headed back to our seats, Tim and the rest of the pitchers were joining the team for the National Anthem and he was signing autographs as he walked along to the dugout.  I was able to get him to sign a photo I had taken of him pitching during regionals in Gary.  I wasn't sure at that time if I would get to actually meet him after the game or not.

The Brooklyn Cyclones play at MCU Park, which is a very cool park at night because of the amusement park in the background.  Unfortunately, not only did the Cyclones lose to the Staten Island Yankees, but Tim did not pitch.  I still had a great time watching the game and that is what is important!

Me and Michelle


Tim Peterson - warming up

Birds chilling on the field in the middle of the game


MCU Park, surrounded by Coney Island
Tim Peterson (RH Pitcher - Brooklyn Cyclones - #22) and me
After the game, Michelle was a sport as she let me be my crazy self and wait for the team outside of the ball park so that I could have the chance to talk to Tim.  It seemed like we waited forever as both teams slowly exited the ball park.  One of Tim's teammates even asked me if I was waiting for him (he was obviously very observant of my UK sweatshirt and hat).  Finally, Tim made his way out and I caught his attention right away before some other fan could snatch him.  After a quick hug, I first had him personalize the photo I had asked him to autograph before the game with my name.  Then, he happily took a photo with me.  He brought up the subject that I would be going to go see Michael and Luke play the next few days, which meant that he had been reading my tweets and Facebook posts.  He also asked me how long my trip had taken.  He seemed shocked when I told him that my total trip had taken 25 hours to get to Brooklyn.  We spent the next few moments chatting away, including him informing me he would be back in Lexington after the season to take some more classes (he had just finished his junior year when he had been drafted).  Overall, it was a great exchange.  Tim was incredibly nice, just as Corey had been when I had met him during regionals.  I could not have asked for a more pleasant conversation and Michelle had been great to let me have that experience.

Michelle and I headed back to Troy and I had to fight to stay awake.  By that point, I had been up for almost 36 straight hours.  However, you better believe I perked right up when "I Still" by the Backstreet Boys came on the radio on the trip back to Troy.  I was super excited because, believe it or not, it was the first time I had ever heard that song on the radio!  I was a little more awake after that.  By the time we got home and we finally went to bed, I had been up for about 39 straight hours!

Monday, September 3, 2012 - Since Michelle works for the baseball team in which the Renegades were playing against, she was required to be at the ball park all day.  We had decided that I would go to the park with her in the morning and study at the local college that literally shared a parking lot with the ball park.  Since it was Labor Day, no classes were in session.  I found a nice gazebo with picnic tables and set up shop to begin my studying for the GRE.  It was an activity that I was going to have to get used to while I was there.  I joined Michelle for lunch in the ball park, which is provided to employees on game days.  I met a lot of her coworkers who made comments on the Hudson Valley Renegades shirt I was wearing, but they were all super nice to me.  I then decided to stay in the park after lunch to study while I waited for the Renegades to get there.  The park had a nice picnic area which I made my study spot from that point forward.  Once the team got there, I stopped my studying and watched batting practice from my seat right behind the visitors dugout.  Michael saw me while going into the dugout from his batting practice and said hi.  Once batting practice was through, I grabbed dinner thanks to the fan appreciation picnic the ValleyCats were having and thanks to the ticket that Michelle had gotten me. 


Top Left: Luke Maile warming up - Top Right: Michael Williams warming up
Bottom Left: Michael Williams batting practice - Bottom Middle: Luke Maile batting practice - Bottom Right: Michael Williams infield practice

The Renegades ended up winning this one in extra innings (2-1), but neither Michael nor Luke played this particular game.  After the game, I headed out to the bus to wait with the rest of the few Renegades fans that happened to be there.  Luke came out first and I got his autograph of the photo I had brought that I had taken at regionals of both Michael and him.  I thought it was such a great photo of the two and it worked out perfectly since they had both been drafted to the same team.

Autographed Luke Maile and Michael Williams photo


I also gave Luke a little photo album of all the photos I had taken of him at regionals.  Since he didn't have a Twitter or Facebook account, I couldn't share the photos with him like I had been able to with the rest of the team.  I wanted to make sure he had the opportunity to see them as everyone else had been able to see theirs.  He thanked me and got onto the bus.  I hadn't even thought about getting a photo with him! 

Me and Michael Williams (C/1B - Hudson Valley Renegades - #35)
Michael eventually came out and made his way over to me as soon as he saw me.  He gave me a hug right away and thanked me for making the trip.  He truly was a complete sweetheart!  I had him sign the same photo that Luke had and then he asked me if I wanted a photo with him.  For once, it was the player doing the asking and I thought that was way cool.  I found someone to take the photo and Michael made sure I looked at it to make sure it was okay.  It was taken from a bit too far away so we decided that another photo was needed.  After the photo we chatted for awhile.  He asked if I had talked to Luke already, he asked how my meeting with Tim had gone the night before, and we talked about my wish to go to the University of Kentucky for grad school.  Right before he got on the bus, I gave him a gift as a thank you for being such an inspiration.  I knew from past tweets that he listened to some Christian music so I thought I would share with him the man who had inspired me to become a Christian in the first place.  I made a copy of Brian Littrell's Welcome Home album and wrote in a card why I was giving this to him.  I honestly don't know if he's ever listened to that album or just discarded it, but I at least gave it a shot. 

Before Game 2 of the series in my right behind the
dugout seats
Tuesday, September 4, 2012 - This day was not so different from the day before, except that I did my studying in the picnic pavilion in the ball park.  It was such a quiet place to study and overlooked the ball park.  I truly was amazed at exactly how much studying I got done before the teams went out onto the field for batting and fielding practice.  This game, both Luke and Michael would be playing, with Luke behind the plate and Michael at first base.  I actually met a few other Renegades fans that were sitting just down the row from me so I moved to an empty seat next to them...don't worry I was still right behind that dugout!  We started chatting about my trip out there and they wondered how in the world I had become a Renegades fan being from Northwest Indiana.  I informed them of my love for Kentucky baseball and that I was there to see Luke and Michael.  They were amazed at my dedication.  I had also chatted with the people behind me who were just at the park to have a good time...they were drinking quite a bit.  At one point, one of the guys saw my photo of Brian Littrell on my phone and commented that I had a Backstreet Boy on my phone.  He then started singing "Show Me The Meaning of Being Lonely."  I was incredibly impressed with the fact that 1) he knew it was a boy band member on my phone, 2) he knew this specific boy band member was a Backstreet Boy and not a member of that other 90s boy band that I refuse to name, and 3) That it was "SMTM" that he started to sing and not "I Want It That Way," since that is the go-to BSB song.  That guy stole a little piece of my heart by knowing this information AND singing my favorite BSB song. 

A very happy Renegades team


Michael has an amazing game this evening.  He was hit by a pitch, had two doubles, and walked.  He also had an amazing scoop at first base and attempted some pretty difficult defensive plays.  I was so incredibly happy that I had gotten to see him have such a good game.

1. Michael Williams holding a fellow Wildcat alumni, Neiko Johnson, at first  2. Michael Williams to bat  3.  Michael Williams at first after a walk

Luke's game wasn't nearly as fantastic but he still made an impact.  While he struck out on his first at bat, he threw out a ValleyCat stealing third base.  He then singled at his second at bat.  He then grounded out, but received an RBI in the process.  Luke did reach 1st base during his fourth at-bat, after having his hit lead to a force out for his teammate at second.  As always, his catching abilities were top notch.

1.  Luke Maile to bat  2.  Luke Maile on Second  3.  Luke Maile behind the plate

Unfortunately, the Renegades ended up losing this particular game, 3-9.  The Renegade's pitching coach was also thrown out during this game, as the umping behind the plate was NOT great that evening.  Actually, it was just flat out bad.

Me and Luke Maile (C/1B - Hudson Valley Renegades - #21)
After the game, I got my photo with Luke that I had forgotten to ask for the previous evening.  Then I got a photo with both Michael and Luke, "my Kentucky boys," as I called them while getting ready for the photo.  What really made this photo special was the fact that after I had put it on my Facebook page, Michael then put it on his with the caption "Our biggest fan."  That truly made me feel special and I was so happy to get that recognition from him.

Michael Williams, Me, and Luke Maile


Wednesday, September 5, 2012 - Wednesday brought more of the same...studying and then watching batting practice.  I ran into Michael quickly before the game as he was getting something from the concession stand and asked him if he was going to be playing that game.  He informed me that neither Luke nor he would be starting that game.  I was super bummed.  I had traveled all that way to see the two of them play and I was only going to get to see them play the one game.  Don't get me wrong...it was an amazing trip but I know it would have been SO much better if they would have played more than the one game.

Michael ended up catching in the bullpen that evening and Luke did eventually go in to pinch hit, where he grounded out to the second basemen.  The Renegades ended up winning 3-2, which gave them the league's best record that season at 52-24, only one game above the ValleyCats.  This record also meant that they would have home field advantage for the playoffs, which started just two days later.

I didn't get to talk to Michael as much after this game, as I had the previous two because there were some other people he knew that were there.  I did get a chance to tell him goodbye and he wished me a safe trip home that evening (my bus was leaving at about 11pm that night).  I still feel so incredibly happy to have had the experience I did to meet and talk with Michael.  He is just a genuinely good guy that deserves all the success in the world.

Since this was the last home game for the ValleyCats, Michelle brought me to the little get together that the staff was having before she had to take me to the bus station.  She was ridiculed a bit for bringing in "the enemy" but, overall, everyone that worked for the ValleyCats were extremely friendly people and made my experience a great one.

Thursday, September 6, 2012 - I pretty much slept on and off the entire bus ride home.  Luckily, we had one of the new buses for the entire journey and since it was a week day, the buses were not nearly as full as they had been on that bus I had first taken on Saturday to get to New York.  I got absolutely no studying done on the way home and I also did not have the opportunity to meet some characters, like I had on the trip there.  So, while I had taken full advantage of studying time once I got to NY, I did very little studying on the bus trips to and from my destination.  So, in retrospect, I probably could have driven to my destination without much of a negative impact on my studying. However, then I would not have had such fun tales to share here!

Michael William's game-worn Hudson Valley Renegades
away jersey
Post-NYC Trip - As discussed in my 2012 Birthday post, the Renegades went on to win the 2012 New York-Penn League Championship, where they met up with the Tri-City ValleyCats once again.  At the end of 2012, the Renegades revealed a new color scheme and logo for their team.  This meant that they would be getting new uniforms and were selling off the old uniforms for a charity, Pitch for Kids.  It took some time but eventually a #35 jersey was finally put onto the site to be bought.  I wanted it so badly but I couldn't exactly afford it at the time that I saw it.  By the next day, the uniform had been bought.  I was so incredibly sad about this, as I had wanted it so badly.  Not only had it been Michael's jersey, but it had been the away jersey that they had worn when I had seen them play.  I really wish people could have seen my face when on Christmas morning I unwrapped the gift that had been sent from my mom.  Within the package, contained that #35 Michael Williams jersey!  I was beyond excited, so much so that words cannot even begin to describe how happy I was.  The only thing that could truly make it even better is if I could get Michael to sign it for me.  That piece of sport's memorabilia will truly remind me of that wonderful week in New York, watching some great ball players as they climb up the ladder of success!

Some of you may be wondering how I ended up doing on my GREs.  My verbal and written portions went really well.  My math, which is what I had studied the most while in New York was about average.  Math is my worst subject so I was incredibly happy with what I did get.  I had planned on applying to grad schools in the fall...until I got this new job.  One of the main reasons I had been thinking about going back to grad school was because I had been so unhappy in the line of work in which I had been.  This new job, even though it is just part time, is MUCH better and I am happy doing what I am doing.  GRE scores are good for five years so there is still a chance that I might just make that decision to go back to school after all.  For now, I am happy doing what I am doing.

Well, this entry actually wraps up the last of my 2012 events.  It only took me 3 months into 2013 to catch-up!  However, I have some 2013 adventures coming up that I can't wait to write about.

*Title Credit - "Poster Girl" - Backstreet Boys - Never Gone*

Saturday, February 23, 2013

Can we try to erase all the pain...

**2012 Susan G. Komen Chicago 3-Day**
August 10-12, 2012
Chicago, IL

2012 was filled with more than just fun trips to see basketball games or baseball games or go to concerts or have girl's weekends.  I had my share of hard work, as well.  One of the most difficult things that I did in 2012 was to participate in the Susan G. Komen Chicago 3-Day.  

One year ago I made the announcement that I would be participating in the 2012 Susan G. Komen Chicago 3-Day thanks to the positive influence of New Kids on the Block member, Danny Wood, and fellow fans.  Imagine my surprise when I got the following comment on the blog that I had written. 



I really wasn't sure what to think when I saw the "@dannywood" signature.  There was no way it could be the real Danny Wood reading my blog, could it?  Because of a tweet that I got from Danny after the race, I have to believe now that it might have actually been Danny reading that post and that just makes me feel good.

I held bake sales, raffled off baseball tickets, held pork chop dinners, wrote fundraising letters, and sold t-shirts to try to make it to the minimum $2,300 that I needed to raise in order to participate.  I was happy that one of my friends had decided to join the team and that we would be taking this journey together.

Team Betty bake sale at the Portage Moose Lodge #1900 (Portage, IN)


I was incredibly happy to have the support of the Remember Betty organization as some national raffles were held that benefited Team Betty's across the globe.  Danny Wood himself even advertised one of our fundraisers...

By the middle of March, I had reached my $2,300 fundraising minimum!  I had only been fundraising for two months!  The support I had received from family, friends, and even complete strangers amazed me.  It made me realize that there were, in fact, still good people on this planet.  Just because I had reached my minimum did not mean I was going to stop.  My teammate still had to reach her minimum and I tried my hardest to get her those donations through the team's Twitter and Facebook pages.  In the end, she was unable to reach her minimum and I was going to have to walk alone.  I wasn't worried about doing it alone.  After all, how many things had I done solo in 2012?  Quite a few.  Everyone there would be there for one common reason, to fight breast cancer.  I knew that I would meet some new people and hoped I could find someone right away to walk with.

In March and April I began to work sixty hour weeks, split between four different positions within the same school system.  As if the sixty hour weeks weren't enough to keep me from my training, the fact that for the most part I did not enjoy my job sure did.  I would come home physically and emotionally drained.  The stress from working so many hours gave me a constant pain in my shoulders and upper back.  Headaches would plague me daily and a depression set in very quickly.  Luckily, I only had to endure two months of this agony.  However, even after those two months were up, I was still incredibly drained and had no motivation to do anything.  School let out and I was going to have a new position during our program's summer camp, a leadership role.  I would continue working a full 40 hours but my new position was not any better than my position during the school year.  I would come home tired and with little motivation to do my training.  In other words, while my training started out great in January and February, it was almost nonexistent from March through August.  I knew that I didn't have to walk the entire 60 miles and that Sweep vans would come to my aid if I needed to take a break from walking so I was just going to try my best at completing the 60 miles in 3 days. 

Friday, August 10, 2012 - Check in started very early on Friday morning, about 6am.  I still had to make the 1.5 hour drive from home so I had to get up VERY early.  Like I usually do before a big event, I got only about two hours of sleep.  It was going to be a LONG day since I still had over 20 miles to walk that day.  Since I did not know where I was going, I left extra early and got there right when everything opened.  I was majorly disappointed when it started raining as I drove to the opening ceremony.  That would add an interesting component to the day.  I was relieved that by the time I parked, it had stopped.  I dropped off my bag to the truck that would deliver it to the camp site, got my lanyard to put my credentials in, and then registered an app for Facebook to show my friends my progress throughout the weekend.  When I was done, I still had about an hour and a half to kill before the opening ceremony started.  I had meant to eat breakfast on the way, but had decided to wait until I got closer to my destination to ensure I would be on time.  Once I got closer, there seemed to be no where to eat!  Luckily, the mall that we were starting at had a few places that opened early specifically for all the walkers and I grabbed a quick breakfast.  I had asked some specific people on Twitter to keep me in their thoughts and prayers throughout the weekend but had not heard back from any of them.  However, I was surprised with a Tweet from one of them as I was eating my breakfast.  One of my favorite Bat Cats that had been drafted sent me some words of inspiration and it put a huge smile on my face.  I was ready to go!


Ready for a life changing journey


Rain, rain go away...

As I left the mall, I noticed that the number of people checking in and getting their stuff taken care of had multiplied.  It was getting crowded and we were all excited to get the show on the road.  I went over to the stage to wait for opening ceremonies and stretch.  The sky looked dark and I hoped that it would blow over so that there would be no more rain.  The sky opened up and the rain began to fall.  There was a scramble as everyone got out their rain gear to wear.  Several people were taking their shoes and socks off to put on flip flops.  I later learned why this may have been a good idea.


The reason I walk...
The opening ceremony was amazing and it was time to start the walk.  I still hadn't found anyone that looked like they needed a walking partner.  As I moved closer to actually moving to start the walk, I was afraid that I was going to be walking alone for some time at first.  Then, I was approached by someone asking if I went the University of Kentucky (I was wearing my UK hat).  I explained that I was just a huge fan and found out that she had actually been on the dance team there (and Kentucky has an awesome dance team)!  She was also walking by herself...I had found my walking partner!  Another person overheard us talking about how we were both there as singles and asked if she could join us because she was also a single.  I now had two walking partners!

As the race started it stopped raining.  However, just as we all decided it was safe enough to take off our rain gear, the rain came down once again.  The first pit stop was muddy as we had to avoid large puddles of standing water to get to the porta-pots for a restroom break.  I just want to take this time to discuss how incredibly clean all of these were throughout the entire three days, including the one's back at camp.  It was so impressive!  We got our delicious snacks and continued on the journey.  It did eventually stop raining which was good but not before our feet got soaked from walking in the rain. 

By lunch time the sun had come out.  The first thing I did after getting my lunch was get my wet shoes and socks off my feet.  It felt good to let my little toes breathe! The Youth Corps were buzzing around, refilling water bottles and making sure the walkers didn't need anything.  One young gentleman was even offering foot massages!  I didn't take him up on his offer but I thought it was way cool that a teenage boy was offering to massage the tired, probably stinky, feet of people he didn't even know.  The Youth Corps was amazing throughout the entire weekend, lifting up the spirits of a lot of tired walkers.  Once again my UK hat served its purpose and another Wildcat fan approached me at lunch.  We chatted a bit and then I changed into some dry socks, hoping my still damp shoes weren't going to cause problems.

Some of the neighborhoods we walked through were absolutely amazing!  The houses were gorgeous and BIG!  The other girls and I chatted away and my obsession with the Backstreet Boys came up.  They found it to be way cool that I've had all of the adventures that I have had because of those Boys.  Sometimes you never know if people are going to think you are absolutely crazy or if they are going to think it's fun.  In most of my experiences, people love to hear about the adventures I've had. 

As the day went on, I started walking slower and some problems started developing.  I could feel some hot spots forming on my foot, which means that blisters were going to start forming soon.  I did my best to prevent this from happening by bandaging them.  My right foot started to hurt along the side.  I knew right away what was happening.  Several years ago, I had had the same problem in my other foot after walking in a half marathon that I had not trained for...AT ALL.  The pain this time very much resembled that pain and it was in the exact same spot, just on the other foot.  The diagnosis the last time this had happened was tendinitis and it had put me on crutches for a month.  The pain started off small and got worse as the day went on, but I just wanted to finish the first day.  The other girls were pulling out ahead of me and I couldn't quite keep up with them but I didn't want to hold them back, either.  Occasionally, other walkers would join me, cheering me on and motivating me to keep going.  They could tell that I was in pain.  At one point the girls stopped to wait for me as we made a bathroom break and stretch.  The stretching felt amazing...until I went to stretch my calves.  As I went into my stretch, my calves began to burn and felt like they were on fire.  You know how it feels when you pull a muscle?  Yeah, it was like that only it was in both calves and made it even more difficult to walk.  I hoped that returning to the walking would help loosen up the muscles so that the pain would go away.  I decided that the next time I saw a sweep van I was going to have to take it because I was in bad shape.  I only had three more miles to go and it saddened me to know that I wasn't going to complete all twenty one of the Day 1 miles.  I began walking slowly.  One mile went by and then two before I saw a sweep van approaching.  I only had one more mile to complete in order to finish and made the decision to bypass the sweep van and complete those miles!  It took me awhile and it was painful but I was so happy as I crossed that finish line for the day and made my way into camp!  The first thing I did was make my way to the mats to stretch.  It was so difficult to even get down on the ground to even begin stretching.  Trying to get back up was even worse.  Muscles in my body hurt that I didn't even know existed.  The only things that were going through my mind were "I have two more days of this...I can do this...why didn't I train more like I was supposed to?" 

The evening was not over yet, as I still had to set up my tent in camp and grab my bag from the trucks that had transported them there.  I could barely walk, how was I going to carry a heavy bag and set up a tent?  Thankfully, the 3-Day had Tent Angels to assist us.  A young guy happily grabbed my bag and a tent and made his way to my camp site where he set up the tent in no time.  I'm no stranger to putting up tents but I felt like in my condition it would have taken me at least two hours to put it up.  I was moving at the pace of a snail.  Originally, I should have been sharing the tent with my teammate but since she hadn't raised enough money and wasn't able to walk, I was going to get the tent to myself.  I decided to get dinner next, which was good.  The food all weekend was good (including all of the yummy snacks along the route at the pit stops) and there was plenty of it.  The 3-Day Crew was ready and willing to refill your water bottle, take your plates, and help you in any way that you needed.  I cannot compliment all of the Crew enough for their amazing help all weekend.  They definitely made the weekend even that much more special. 

Similar to our 3-Day Showers
A nice hot shower was next on my list of things to do.  I hoped it would ease the pain that I was feeling.  Questions about showers were usually the first I got after my 3-Day weekend.  Camp was set up at a local school in a field (either soccer or football, I can't remember now).  Rows and rows of pink tents filled the field.  Off to the side were four large eighteen wheelers...with showers in them!  It was definitely something different and a new experience for me.  The showers inside reminded me off my days back at the college dorm.  You stepped into the small, curtained changing area and then into the curtained shower area.  It was totally sufficient and clean for our needs for the weekend.  Again, another impressive accomplishment by the 3-Day.


Medic Rob and me - Day 3
My final stop was the medical tent to see if I could get any help with some of the pain I was feeling.  By then, the hot spots that I had during the walk had turned into blisters.  My first stop was to take care of those...all 11 of them that I had (6 on one foot and 5 on the other).  Luckily, only one of them had come open during the day.  The medic that took care of me, Rob, was extremely nice as he took particular care of each and every single one of those blisters.  He told me it had been the most he had seen that day.  I knew that it had been bound to happen between my lack of training and the rain that had soaked my feet at the beginning of the walk (all those people that had put on their flip flops when it had started to rain had been geniuses).  When Rob was done lancing the bad blisters and using a variety of bandages to cover the others, we both admired the masterpiece that was his first aid job.  Little did I know that it was going to be the start of a friendship developed over the weekend.  My next stop was to get my foot checked out.  I informed them of the problem I had a few years back but they checked it for fractures just in case.  I was clear there!  There was nothing they could really do for the tendon except some ice and ibuprofen.  I then went to the third part of the medical tent to see about getting some relief for the fire that was still radiating throughout my calves.  It was determined that I had overstretched them at my last stretching stop.  They were rubbed down with Bio Freeze (greatest stuff ever!) and I was sent on my way. 

I joined back up with the girls I had been walking with and we made plans to meet the next morning.  I hoped that a good night of rest would ease all of the pain that I was feeling and that I would be able to walk the next day, even if it was only for a little bit.  I thought I would have no problems falling asleep on that first night because of the lack of sleep I had had the night before and how exhausted I was from the walk that day.  We had been lucky that the day had not been hot, even though it was the middle of August.  That also meant that the temperature dropped drastically that night and the cold was just one of the things that kept me lying awake that night.  The fact that my body hurt all over was another big reason for my insomnia.  I had not brought an air mattress (partly because I had no portable pump to blow it up and partly because there had been no room in my bag) so lying on the somewhat hard ground was not helping the pain and soreness I was feeling.


Saturday, August 11, 2012 - After another night of very little sleep, I woke up to a chilly morning.  I was sore but I didn't know how bad my foot was until I stepped outside of the tent.  I could barely walk.  As much as I wanted to walk that day, I knew that doing so would just make the pain worse and could cause more damage.  Besides, if there was one thing I wanted to do, it was cross that finish line on the third day.  I thought that maybe if I rested my foot the entire day, it would okay enough for me to walk at least part of the third day.  I made the decision to catch the SAG bus right from camp, which would take me straight to the lunch stop.  Only one other person was on the bus with me but she had been red carded by medical because they had determined that she had a stress fracture in her foot.  My medic friend Rob had seen me that morning and had threatened to red card me himself after seeing the pain I was in.  I told him that I was red carding myself and not to worry because I had no plans of walking that day.  I took the bus to the lunch site and hoped I would see the girls as they came into lunch.  I talked with some other walkers who were also having issues and spent some time icing my foot, after finding another blister that Rob and I had missed the night before (that made a total of 12 blisters).  The girls eventually came into the lunch site and they updated me on everything that they had seen so far that day. 

An example of some cool things along the route - Day 1

What had impressed me so much on the first day was the support the walkers seemed to get from others in the community on our journey.  Cheering stations had been set up along the route as people cheered you on and passed out goodies.  Cars honked as they passed you going down the street.  It made me feel good that people were supporting the cause even if they weren't walking themselves.  It gave hope to the walkers as they chugged along.  From what the girls were telling me, I had missed some good times along the route that day.  I felt bad that I had missed it.  They seemed to still be going strong as they continued on their journey. 

I joined the SAG bus to take us back to camp and it was much more full this time.  Since we rode the bus back, we got into camp before everyone else.  It meant I didn't have to wait in line for the shower, which was nice.  However, I was tired.  My lack of sleep from the night before and the fact I had pretty much just sat all day had drained me of any energy.  I decided to lay in my tent for awhile and take a nap, since we had some time before most of the walkers would make it back into camp.  Even though it wasn't especially hot out, anyone who has been camping knows how warm it can be inside a tent that has been sitting in the sun all day.  I layed down but the oven-like conditions were not conducive to getting any shut eye.  I eventually made my way to the dining tent to grab dinner and was joined by the girls once they returned and had completed their showers.  We all decided to partake in the festivities that evening since we had been too tired to stay up the night before.  They had a performer singing and playing his guitar, presentations, and special recognitions.  The part that everyone looks the most forward to at the end of Day 2 is the Dance Party.  It's exactly how it sounds...they play music and everyone dances.  It looked like fun but we were in no shape to join in those particular festivities as we decided to call it a night. 

Sunday, August 12, 2012 - I slept a bit better on the second night but it still wasn't a great sleep.  I made sure to layer more and that helped a bit but it was still very cold.  Unfortunately, I woke up the next morning to my foot not feeling much better at all.  I was mad that I was going to have to miss another day of walking.  After slowly and painfully packing my bag and taking my tent down, I made my way to breakfast.  I hopped on the SAG bus, which had WAY more people than the first SAG bus of the previous day.  At least I was not alone.  We headed to the lunch site, where I had a nice visit with my medic friend and helped where I could in restocking the blister materials as I sat at the table and iced my foot.  I was able to see the girls, who had diligently walked every mile of that walk, before I got on one of the sweep vans to head to the finish at Soldier Field (mind you, that will be the ONLY time I am ever caught in that building - Go Pack Go).  Unfortunately, we entered the stadium in a spot that we did not cross the finish line.  I wasn't about to end this journey without crossing that line!  I limped over to the finish line and crossed it - and the crew of the 3-Day cheered for me even though I hadn't come across it like everyone else would that day.  I knew I had some time before the first walkers would finish for the day but I stayed by that line and cheered on everyone who came across that line.  I was so angry at myself for not being able to walk that entire walk but I was so happy to be a part of the experience, even if I had not gotten to experience to the fullest extent.  I eventually saw the girls coming across the finish line and gave them each a huge hug for their accomplishment!  


The girls and me waiting for closing ceremonies to begin

It was then a waiting game, as the closing ceremonies would not begin until all walkers had crossed that finish line.  We sat and I had them tell me about everything I had missed that day.  It sounds like the walk through the city and along the lake front was a great one!  When it was finally time to line up for the closing ceremonies we happened to be standing right where the line was to begin to march into the closing....so we were the first to be greeted by all of the family and friends that had come to cheer on their walker.  Sadly, I had no one there for me since my husband refuses to come to Chicago.  It was great walking through the crowd as they cheered us on, although I had problems keeping up with those that were the first in line because of my foot.  We were in the front row in front of the stage to experience the closing ceremonies, which were very emotional, to say the least.  I know I had some tears running down my face.  In 3-Day tradition, we all removed one of our shoes and raised it into the air as the survivors entered the closing ceremonies to signify that it was not only them that we were walking for, but all survivors of breast cancer and those who will be affected by it in the future.  It was announced that the Chicago 3-Day had raised $3.5 million as of the closing ceremonies!  And I was just a small part of that...  


Cats Fans!

As the closing ceremonies ended, I headed to pick up my gear and head to the shuttle that would take me back to my car where the opening ceremonies had been held.  All around me, walkers were in great spirits as they recalled their favorite memories of the weekend.  I ran into the Kentucky fans I had met earlier that weekend in the parking lot and got my photo with them.  Later, I had posted this photo on Twitter and had tagged the University of Kentucky to let them know that the Big Blue Nation is truly everywhere (this is important for something that happened later)!

I drove home, stopping by Taco Bell to grab some dinner.  There I had a discussion about the 3-Day with someone who had seen my limp.  They congratulated me on my accomplishments for the weekend and it made me feel good.  People outside of the 3-Day community were recognizing the effort I had dedicated to the cause. 

Post 3-Day:  The love and congratulations that I received from everyone after the 3-Day was amazing.  The biggest surprise was the following tweet.... 




The fact that Danny took the time to tweet me and thank me for my efforts was beyond anything I could ever imagine.  What really got to me was the fact that he (or someone) had taken the time to get the photo that I had tweeted to the University of Kentucky and crop it to only show me.  It truly made me feel so incredibly good about what I had accomplished, even though I had been upset I hadn't gotten to walk the entire event.

Even before this had happened, I had made the decision to participate in the 2013 Chicago 3-Day once again.  I think I had actually decided this at the closing ceremonies of the 2012 3-Day.  So, you may be asking...."It kind of sounded like you had a miserable time with your injuries.  Why do it again?"  Well, that is a very good question.  Let me answer that for you.

1.  By the end of the week my blisters and tendinitis were practically healed.  It just took one short week of rest to heal.  My ailments did not need chemotherapy.  I didn't need to have a full mastectomy or hysterectomy to keep this pain from returning.  These injuries were not life-threatening.  I was going to be able to go about my life normally after one week of healing, while those with breast cancer would have to suffer for months or even years.  If it takes feeling that pain for one week in order to fight breast cancer, I will be more than happy to suffer for that one week.

2.  The support I received before, during, and after the event were amazing and made me feel like I was doing something important and making a difference in the world.  Who doesn't enjoy that feeling?  I cannot thank my family, friends, and even complete strangers enough for what they helped me to accomplish.

3.  The people I met during the event were inspirational.  There were survivors who were walking to make a statement.  They had beaten breast cancer and they weren't about to let it defeat them.  There were family members who had lost loved ones to cancer.  The memory of the loved one was being honored.  There were men dressed in bras and tutus, walking for a cause that affects so few of them.  Those who don't want to or can't make the walking and fundraising commitment are still there to support the walkers on their journey.  For one weekend, so many people came together, forgetting about their problems, to fight for one common cause.  We were all a family that weekend...we all belonged.

4.  I know too many people that have been affected by breast cancer.  My grandmother is a 17-year survivor.  I have at least two sorority sisters that are survivors (and more that I'm sure I don't even know about).  A fellow member of my Moose Lodge is a survivor.  Luckily, everyone I know has been able to fight and defeat the disease.  It's because of research and funding by organizations like Susan G. Komen that aids in this fight.  Unfortunately, I also know many people who have had loved ones not be able to defeat those cancerous cells.  That is why we need to keep fighting and not stop until that survival rate is at 100%.

5.  I want the FULL 3-Day experience.  I want to be able to walk EVERY one of those 60 miles.  I want to experience EVERY one of those cheering stations.

Those are just five reasons why I am going to experience all of this all over again!  I would love for more people to join me, as I am the only member of Team Betty for the Chicago 3-Day right now.  You can visit the Team Betty Participant Page for more information.

I started my training about 4 weeks early and am in Week 5.  To date I have logged 62 miles of training.  It has been going great!  And now that I have a new job that I enjoy, I believe that training will be so much easier for me than it was last year.  I also know that I need to make so much more of an effort so that I don't have the same problems that I did last year.  I would love everyone's encouragement and support so that I keep up with it though!  You can do this in a number of ways:

"Like" us on Facebook - Team Betty - Susan G. Komen Chicago 3-Day
Follow us on Twitter - @TeamBetty_Chi
E-mail us - teambettychicago3day@gmail.com

My fundraising has also been going well.  I have decided to make my goal $3,500 this year, which is slightly higher than the amount I was able to raise last year.  I am just about to break the $1,000 mark.  I have several fundraisers going on right now including Training Sponsorships, White Sox v. Cubs ticket raffle, and "Cancer Sucks" t-shirts for sale.  You can get all the information for these fundraisers or donate on my Walker Participant Page.


Team Betty - 2012 Top 5 Teams

I discovered recently that our team last year was actually in the Top 5 for fundraising Team Betty's across the world.  That was with two of us fundraising.  I would love to get on this list again this year, especially if I am the only member of the team!

Thank you for taking the time to read all of this and I hope that I can count on you for your support!

  

**Title Credit - "The Answer To Our Life" - Black and Blue - Backstreet Boys

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